Care Giving,Social Isolation and Protecting Yourself When Engaging Social Media Such as Facebook, Part 3
by Diane Carbo RN
As the communication continued, we started to ask questions about him, very specific questions- about his life, his family, etc. This is the response. We only can imagine that, once again, there is someone cutting and pasting these pat responses for some poor, vulnerable soul to read, ......
Am so glad reading from you today, that was my first time on FACE BOOK, I said to
myself that I need to give this site a trial and see what comes out of it, I have seen your profile a long time but wanted to be sure if this is what I really want to do, gosh you have a beautiful picture, and they really caught my attention
I have been thinking of you and this lovely picture since I set my eyes on them, i might be wrong or right about you, but the truth is that i cant stop thinking about what i saw....and as a matter of fact you made me do some dancing steps after reading your letter, i felt so good and happy. I was just about to take off to the air, I was very impressed that you even accept me beyond I ever thought, and yes i want to us to be friends and see what happens there after.
Your profile seem to posses some sought of magnetic charm that elicited my interest and fascination.
My admiration and physical attraction drew forth my immediate response without hesitation because you appeal to my dreams and desire.
My sudden instinctive response was based primarily on a spontaneous mutual attraction which rendered me helpless and unable to resist communicating with you immediately, please afford me the opportunity to know you.
I need to let you know that distance is not a barrier as long as our hearts connect as one and I donít see it as an obstacle; rather a great reminder of just how strong true love can be, Distance does not matter if two hearts are loyal to one another, your beauty and sweetness captured my heart, Only God's creations can compare to the beauty that I see in you, The greatest gift to my eyesight is having my eyes set on you.
They say, 'A picture is worth a thousand words,'
but when I saw yours, I was speechless.
Please feel free to email me all the time, and take care of yourself for me.
Waiting for your reply soon
To my readers...
Oh yes, I have such magnetic charm, in that Angela Lansbury sort of way LOL, the men just flock to me !!!
I guess just a simple email response asking questions and showing interest sent him dancing.
He failed to mention, that we did mention our concern that he may be a serial murder, rapist or con man, or grifter!
But I guess he overlooked those comments.
Of course, I have to admit, I've been told all my life, yes even when I was young and beautiful, that while other woman give the "come hither" look to men, my girl friends have always accused me of giving men the "Go Yonder" Look LOL!
So while I found his attraction to my picture refreshing (hehehehe) , I think he was definitely delusional.
Yes, I leave alot of men speechless. But it is not my looks, for sure. It is definitely not my looks.
For those vulnerable lonely care females/caregivers out there. Please do not be taken in by these sweet words and caring phrases.They could be written by woman to entice you to give your heart away.
The goal is not a relationship with you, it is financial gain for them.
More to Come, You will not want to miss this
Diane Carbo RN
Your Life Care Advocate
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